Saturday 13 October 2012

Martians Venusians Chemistry~Love



 Hey Dear Friends....


Have you ever wondered why people fall in love? 
I always wonder .... why people fall in love?

Is this feeling so amazing that it makes people go crazy.....in a fantasy world.....only two of them...and their dreams....quite interesting....!!!

Last day I had a talk with one of my schoolmate.....
I never expected his call in my life....we started to talk about the old 25 paise coin story....and ended up talking  about the concept of 'love'...

I was surprised to know that he TOO had fallen in love. I was curious to know his love story. I never expected that this crazy fellow would fall in love....and there is a reason for that too....

He was a strange character at school... rarely talks to girls....I guess he just hated girls...!!!
The 25 paisa silly incident goes like this....( withdrawn coin from the market now...)

He took Photostat of class notes for everyone... and I owe him 5 rupees 25 paise... Since I had no 25 paisa with me...I gave him 1 extra rupee. But He was adamant that he wanted 25 paise itself...(I guess...he didnt have balance to give me...) I asked him to keep 1 rupee with him and I told him that I don't need balance....then he told me harshly " give it to a beggar" I felt very bad....but didnt say any...I was humiliated in front of the whole class...... Unexpectedly my one among my good friends yelled at him "that's the reason  she gave it to you".  
“What a cool comment that was" one of the beauty queen in the class whispered...
"These girls don't have any manners" One arrogant Mr.Handsome spoke out....

Oh My God...there started WORLD WAR III-"BOYS VS GIRLS"

At that time people who suffered more were those in love....the couples .....On valentine’s day, this stupid guy brought black badges and distributed to other boys...Then the girl who yelled at him that day distributed  red ribbons to all girls..... WOW...what a cold war??? It all started from the humble 25paise that has faded into the history now.

It’s so true men and women are entirely different people from different planets as John Gray said men are from mars and women are from venus
and the love between the Venusians (Women) and Martians ( Men ) was magical.
The special chemistry that makes those two people to fall in love.....mysterious but magical...!!!
Falling in love is like dancing in the rains......or it is like listening to the melodious song of a Nightingale ...He said...
So sweet to hear...I asked him to continue....I wanted to know who he has fallen for.....?
 When you fall in love... you start to see the beauty of mind....and understand the feeling of the heart. 
Is it so ??? I asked him...
He said: “Just Fall in Love My Friend..."
Ah! Love is beautiful experience...! Everything is bright and beautiful when are in love....Love is an inspiration....a passion...a sweet feeling....

As each day pass by it grows and grows the intense feeling of love....you start dreaming more and more....
A day without seeing your love passes so slow that it seems to be like a year.... when she comes near you...your  heart starts to sing ....... A day without her thoughts is rare...more concern....more care....more freedom...you just get special wings to fly....
I interrupted him....I asked “who is that LUCKY girl ...?”
For a second I was shocked...then....I was very happy.....Discovery of a secret love.....
Love is a special feeling.......
but.....
if not handled properly....

it will explode.....

it may destruct you....

It may ruin your life.... 

“HANDLE WITH CARE”

Love is not a game to be played....it is life!!!

About his girlfriend..who is she? who might be her? his love.....wait friends....

I just wrote this ...dedicated to that secret love........and here it is...



Today is a beautiful rainy day....a romantic rainy day...I was watching those birds flying back to their nest....they were eagerly flying towards the someone special....they knew their love is waiting for them in the nest............


Wait for the right person to come into life at the right time...you never know when the disease would attack you...if it does.....then the cure is very difficult.....Beware!!!
Well who do you think his girl friend might be.....??? She is none other than one among my close friend, who yelled at him during that 25 paise incident.....a humble 25paise created a love story....cute....!!
.........................................................The End...........................................................



John Gray is a bestselling author, lecturer and relationships counselor.Now I just wanted to quote John Gray’s words from the book “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus"


 Men continue to expect women to think and react like men and women expect men to feel and behave like women. When men and women are able to RESPECT & ACCEPT their differences then love has a chance to blossom.

 Many of the Martian when gets upset he never talks about what is bothering him. He becomes quiet and goes to his private cave to think about his problem.  Women needs empathy more than solutions but men offers solutions but ignore her. Men feel better by solving problems while women feel better by talking problems.
 A Man’s sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results whereas a woman’s sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships.
The Martian and Venusian languages had the same words but the way they were used gave different meaning.
...........That’s all for now........
Will see you in my next blog post...

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