Martians Venusians Chemistry~Love

 Hey Dear Friends....

Have you ever wondered why people fall in love? 

I always wonder .... why people fall in love?

Is this feeling so amazing that it makes people go crazy.....in a fantasy world.....only two of them...and their dreams....quite interesting....!!!

Last day I had a talk with one of my schoolmate.....
I never expected his call in my life....we started to talk about the old 25 paise coin story....and ended up talking  about the concept of 'love'...

I was surprised to know that he TOO had fallen in love. I was curious to know his love story. I never expected that this crazy fellow would fall in love....and there is a reason for that too....

He was a strange character at school... rarely talks to girls....I guess he just hated girls...!!!

The 25 paisa silly incident goes like this....( withdrawn coin from the market now...)

He took Photostat of class notes for everyone... and I owe him 5 rupees 25 paise... Since I had no 25 paisa with me...I gave him 1 extra rupee. But He was adamant that he wanted 25 paise itself...(I guess...he didnt have balance to give me...) I asked him to keep 1 rupee with him and I told him that I don't need balance....then he told me harshly " give it to a beggar" I felt very bad....but didnt say any...I was humiliated in front of the whole class...... Unexpectedly my one among my good friends yelled at him "that's the reason  she gave it to you".  
“What a cool comment that was" one of the beauty queen in the class whispered...
"These girls don't have any manners" One arrogant Mr.Handsome spoke out....

Oh My God...there started WORLD WAR III-"BOYS VS GIRLS"

At that time people who suffered more were those in love....the couples .....On valentine’s day, this stupid guy brought black badges and distributed to other boys...Then the girl who yelled at him that day distributed  red ribbons to all girls..... WOW...what a cold war??? It all started from the humble 25paise that has faded into the history now.

It’s so true men and women are entirely different people from different planets as John Gray said men are from mars and women are from venus

and the love between the Venusians (Women) and Martians ( Men ) was magical.

The special chemistry that makes those two people to fall in love.....mysterious but magical...!!!

Falling in love is like dancing in the rains......or it is like listening to the melodious song of a Nightingale ...He said...

So sweet to hear...I asked him to continue....I wanted to know who he has fallen for.....?

 When you fall in love... you start to see the beauty of mind....and understand the feeling of the heart. 

Is it so ??? I asked him...

He said: “Just Fall in Love My Friend..."

Ah! Love is beautiful experience...! Everything is bright and beautiful when are in love....Love is an inspiration....a passion...a sweet feeling....

As each day pass by it grows and grows the intense feeling of love....you start dreaming more and more....

A day without seeing your love passes so slow that it seems to be like a year.... when she comes near you...your  heart starts to sing ....... A day without her thoughts is rare...more concern....more care....more freedom...you just get special wings to fly....
I interrupted him....I asked “who is that LUCKY girl ...?”

For a second I was shocked...then....I was very happy.....Discovery of a secret love.....

Love is a special feeling.......

but.....

if not handled properly....

it will explode.....

it may destruct you....

It may ruin your life.... 

“HANDLE WITH CARE”

Love is not a game to be played....it is life!!!

About his girlfriend..who is she? who might be her? his love.....wait friends....

I just wrote this ...dedicated to that secret love........and here it is...

Today is a beautiful rainy day....a romantic rainy day...I was watching those birds flying back to their nest....they were eagerly flying towards the someone special....they knew their love is waiting for them in the nest............

Wait for the right person to come into life at the right time...you never know when the disease would attack you...if it does.....then the cure is very difficult.....Beware!!!
Well who do you think his girl friend might be.....??? She is none other than one among my close friend, who yelled at him during that 25 paise incident.....a humble 25paise created a love story....cute....!!
.........................................................The End...........................................................

John Gray is a bestselling author, lecturer and relationships counselor.Now I just wanted to quote John Gray’s words from the book “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus"

 Men continue to expect women to think and react like men and women expect men to feel and behave like women. When men and women are able to RESPECT & ACCEPT their differences then love has a chance to blossom.

 Many of the Martian when gets upset he never talks about what is bothering him. He becomes quiet and goes to his private cave to think about his problem.  Women needs empathy more than solutions but men offers solutions but ignore her. Men feel better by solving problems while women feel better by talking problems.

 A Man’s sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results whereas a woman’s sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships.

The Martian and Venusian languages had the same words but the way they were used gave different meaning.

...........That’s all for now........

Will see you in my next blog post...

Love Is Blind.....And....I'm Dead

Hey,

       How many of you have loved someone more than your life? Have your heart stopped beating when you saw that person?  Have you ever cared someone more than yourself? Have you ever seen your tears in his or her eyes when you were in pain?
 In love, Every sweet things happen..........!!!

But When you loose it........................No words to express the pain you may go through....

Someone told me this story.....here it goes.....1...2...3....

Love for me was a fantasy world...until I met you...But After I met you......Love was My life.....!

In a dream land, dreaming....dreaming and dreaming......with you always...

Dancing to the tune of love with you was really a beautiful moment in my life...Feeling so special and important....

I never thought that one day, I too would fall in love.

I never thought that one day, I would love someone more than my life.

The so called passion....(the greatest madness everyone should experience at-least once in lifetime.....pray & hope that it last forever.....) locked me up in a cage which was your heart....I could not escape nor I wanted to....I was becoming breathless because of your unconditional love.....

Why do you like me? 
What is so special in me that you had fallen in love with me?

             Suffocating me with your love and care....healing all my pain...hiding my tears behind your heart....Washing away all my weakness..... I am floating...and....flying.......with you.

Everything after falling in love with you was a new experience.....beautiful days.....I was proud to say that I am in love with you beloved and I am so lucky....
You are my heart and soul....I could have never got someone so sweet as you.....

AM I WORTHY FOR IT  ???

Love is blind....BUT..............Ah......I never thought that Love would make my life go blind.......!!!

 You were the one to discover the poet in me......so its for you dear....

"My last poem for you, my..............love!"

Nothing to say more than these......

Was it all just a mere dream.....???

Falling in love with you was a mistake.....but a real mistake...!

Days, months or even years may not be enough to wipe away my tears......

Maybe I could not be me...without your love......you had changed me....those changes are permanent ...I know...

Maybe I would take a life time to heal myself.....the wound of your love was so deep.....thanks for it....as you taught me many things that no one else could have taught me.....

I would bury all your memories and even you in my soul’s graveyard  forever......!!!

I would decorate it with beautiful white roses instead of those ugly red ones.....

Maybe I was not your first love....maybe I was just one among many, you loved....

But... you were definitely my first love.....but you never were or never will be my forever love.....

My heart is hurt.....but it will heal.....it has to heal.....for my real love....for my true love....for my only soul-mate.......I may die waiting for that special person.....but I would never love you again in my life.....even if you come back to me......even if you ask for forgiveness....even if you beg me....

I just don't want you nor your unsure..... Dirty love.....
Now, I can firmly say that....YOU ARE NOT WORTHY OF MY LOVE.......

Be happy as always....I would never hate you......As it is true that how much ever I try I may not be able to hate you......!!! Best Wishes !!!

GOODBYE!!!

.......................................................THE END.........................................................

END OF A LOVE STORY....BUT BEGINNING OF A NEW LIFE.....
A MORE EXCITING LIFE.....A REAL LIFE...

Love is freedom......love is respect....every thing starts with love and ends with love....the priceless feeling....that cannot be bought!!!
It is of-course a  great feeling...a devotion.....a desire....a powerful miracle....a soul healing tool......

It may happen anytime.....anywhere....

But Falling in love with the right person at the right time is important...Is it not???

Falling in love is a special feeling.....an amazing experience... Believe in it.....trust your real love.....it would definitely come in search of you....
Wait for your true love....wait for your soul mate.....search for it.....find it....grasp it....FOREVER.....

Someone somewhere is made for you.....Waiting just for you dear......when you discover that hidden love....hold it tight....Never Let It Go!!!

A search for true love.......

I have never felt like this before...I just feel to be alone.....still wishing that someone was there to hear you...to love you....
You can see me smiling but I am dying inside........
Deep buried are my sorrows........No one can find them out......other than.......
No one can understand my thoughts or my feelings......other than......

I am bleeding......I am falling....... But I wont die...I am not a coward.....

Why Am I different from others? 
"Well, all are unique".....you said
But I cant accept the fact that I am extremely different......Am I mad?
"mmm......sometimes"....you said
When did I started loving silence? When did I started Liking loneliness? 
"mmmmm.........." was your reply.

But I know....
Years ago...When I was in love.....I hated silence....I hated loneliness...
I was in a fantasy world with you.......enjoying every moment of my life...

But  then a day, I lost you....I lost my true love.....

Then I started enjoying the beauty of loneliness......and started believing blindly that silence is golden.

Years of darkness....years of silence and loneliness...

I cant live without you....I am breaking the silence...
I cant be myself without you....I am ending this solitude...

Where are you my love?
"Yes...I am here....''....you said
Where? I cant see you dear?
"Search within you.....you can see me dying"......you said

My love....I don't want to loose you.......I don't want to loose myself...

Then My soul whispered 
"Dear, Love yourself........when you are in love with yourself......with your own soul...you will find the ultimate freedom.....you will find yourself........you will discover the purpose of life....then you will definitely love the journey of life.......Enjoy the Ride! Take care my love"

Thankyou dear.....

Dear friends,

           Friendship is one sweet relation that keeps you happy...it gives you love,care and respect.......But certain times you fail to choose the right friend....or maybe its like....at one point of time your friend becomes so selfish....he/she only thinks about his/her own life.....while you were thinking about his/her future....

Certain times its like your dearest play with your feelings...you remain silent...then he/she starts playing with the friendship you both have....and betrays you....and break your trust....at that moment you just say "byebye" with a prayer still in mind....with a care still deep buried in your heart.....

 Have you experienced this feeling at-least once in your life time? 

At times in life, we have to remain silent.....silence is golden...isnt it???? 

.....they never understand what you try to convey.......when they are in dreamland....

I think Elbert Hubbard (American writer cum artist cum philosopher) was absolutely right with these wordings

"He who does not understand your silence will probably not understand your words"

Et tu Brute, then fall Caesar

Dear,

I know I don't want to be formal with you. But it is not the same now. Being formal is better.....

I don't want to ask you this 'How are you?' since I know you are more fine now. 

I just wanted to share my thoughts with you ....though it wont matter to you anymore.

At least you could have said  that simple word sincerely before we part....it could have made us together again...I didn't want to be harsh with you....but you made me to behave so......I tried ...several times....to forgive you ....but it is not working.... wounds are really deep dear...

Our relation was so real and you didn't realize it.....you were finding reasons to make it feel unreal. If you didn't have lied to me.....If you didn't have acted....I would have forgiven you easily....You had lots of freedom than anybody else to share anything with me...then why did you?

Its over.....You may have got better relationships....but you were too special to me. Hope you would one day realize the same.....

I just wish you were the same....My dear....but I know you will never......

True from my heart, you are not my enemy....I don't hate you.....but I cant love you as before.....but I wish I could ......

Atleast one last time if you had called me 'Arsu' as before...really from the heart.......we would have remained the same...you wanted to fly.....and I didn't hold you back.....because your dreams are always important for me..... 

If you cant understand this too....you can be sure that you will never understand me.....

May God Bless You..........!!!!!!!!!!

Regards,
your friend 4ever

P.N: Attaching 'Et tu brute, then fall Caesar' Specially for you.....

That was a long letter of frustrations and sadness......Broken friendships are hard to mend......

I just remember those few famous lines….."Et tu Brute, then fall Caesar". 
Julius Caesar is saying that if even his close friend Brutus is stabbing him, then he has no hope. 

The hardest part of any friendship is when it's time to say goodbye. As much as we might like things to stay the same, change is an inevitable part of life.The universe may seem huge and the rift between friends on opposite side of the world may seem a great distance.There are many tools available, with which we can communicate, but even without these tools there is a secret that only real friends know, and it is this "All the mountains and valleys in the world cannot separate friends whose hearts are as one"

Life Goes on..................!!!!!